Ps. RU a Stoic in 🛌, too, by any chance ? Not asking for a friend. It's me. I want to know. I am conducting research for personal educational purposes. For the love of science, let's say... My love of science... 🔬🧫
It was one of the most beautiful things in my life
It wasn't just music
It was so much more
It was you...
I will miss you forever...
As I am writing these words I can hear clearly in my mind your guitar softly playing the intro from one of those songs we tried to make together (key word: "Ψάξε" 🎶...) (*)
We never took pictures
But I still have it all in a hard drive
Our pictures of sound
How we were creating together
How timid I was trying to follow your lead
I wanted to please you
(I guess I didn't stand a chance
I never was what you usually go for and I knew it)
I was already wounded
I know you will never understand
I guess it wasn't as big of a deal for you
I don't understand, either...
If I had said no back then
Maybe my love wouldn't be weighing you down now...
It wouldn't be a problem
I'm sorry
We all do life without rehearsal
We all do it for the very first time
I should have known
I was pure and waiting for something
I was waiting for you to happen
And you did
My thirst was not music
My success never has been fame
I was hoping to find you
I can remember us giggling and trying to bring two different worlds of sound together
To understand each other's viewpoints in life
You were my one and only...
I wish you had treated me better...
I trusted you... with my life
Why...
I just needed to be treated like a human being ... you know?
Που παλεύω μέσα μου και στη ζωή για αυτά που αισθάνομαι αληθινά...
Ενώ η πραγματικότητα είναι ότι βλέπω τους πάντες να παλεύουν για κάτι στη ζωή τους καθημερινά...
Να αγωνιούν, να πασχίζουν, να αφιερώνονται, να χάνουν τον ύπνο τους, να πέφτουν σε κατάθλιψη, ακόμα και να αρρωσταίνουν από αυτό...
Να βρίσκονται σε έναν μόνιμο αγώνα με τα συναισθήματά τους, με τα όνειρα και τις φιλοδοξίες τους, για τις υποχρεώσεις τους...
Όλοι ήρθαμε εδώ για να σωθούμε σαν κεράκια κάποτε
Απλά ο καθένας καίγεται για εκείνο που καίγεται
Η φωτιά αυτή πρέπει να είναι αυθόρμητη για να είναι τίμια
Οπότε τι σημασία έχει πως λέγεται το σπίρτο του καθενός; Το δικό μου ή το δικό σου;
Και γιατί πειράζει που εγώ διαθέτω τον φθαρτό εαυτό μου σε εκείνο που προτιμώ να μου βάλει φωτιά;
Μήπως αυτό που ενοχλεί περισσότερο ή δημιουργεί περιέργεια είναι ότι βρήκα τελικά το θάρρος να επιλέξω εγώ το σπίρτο και δεν αφέθηκα στις συνθήκες να το επιλέξουν για εμένα ;
Ξέρετε κι αυτό από θυσίες έγινε
Δεν ήταν το αποτέλεσμα κάποιας πολυτέλειας
Καθένας στο δρόμο του
Κι εγώ στο δικό μου
Η δική μου βασική θεματική ενότητα στη ζωή ήταν πάντοτε οι σχέσεις μεταξύ ανθρώπων, ιδεών, καταστάσεων και πραγμάτων...
Γι αυτά καίγομαι μόνο. Τα υπόλοιπα μου είναι αδιάφορα κι αυτό είναι εντάξει γιατί υπάρχουν άλλοι άνθρωποι που ενδιαφέρονται για τα υπόλοιπα!
Για αυτό είναι όρος για την ίδια την ύπαρξη της ζωής οι διαφορές μας!
Αυτό που επιθυμούσα εγώ, ήταν απλώς... Διαφορετικό από το δικό σας
Γιατι είμαστε όλοι ίσοι μα διαφορετικοί...
Κι όλα είναι τόσο σημαντικά όσο πηγαία καιγόμαστε γι αυτά.
"Μην βλέπεις το ερωτικό ενδιαφέρον των άλλων ως βάρος, αλλά ως ένδειξη της ομορφιάς και της ζωντάνιας που αποπνέεις. Δεν έχει σημασία ποιος σε θέλει· σημασία έχει ποιον εσύ επιλέγεις να αφήσεις να σε πλησιάσει.
Η αληθινή αγάπη δεν είναι απλώς μια επιθυμία· είναι μια συνειδητή απόφαση, μια βαθιά σύνδεση που γεννιέται από την εκτίμηση, τον σεβασμό και την ουσία.
Και να θυμάσαι: ο άνθρωπος που αξίζει να είναι δίπλα σου δεν είναι αυτός που απλά σε ποθεί ερωτικά, αλλά αυτός που σε βλέπει, σε καταλαβαίνει και σε επιλέγει κάθε μέρα με την καρδιά του."
Have you ever been on the receiving end of the silent treatment? Or perhaps you've given it, thinking it would solve the problem? The Silent Treatment by James Greaves digs into a behavior that most of us have experienced at some point—silence used as a weapon in relationships. But what does it really accomplish? Why do we turn to silence instead of talking things through? Greaves unpacks the emotional and psychological impacts of this passive-aggressive tactic, showing how it can harm both the giver and the receiver, and offering a path to break free from this toxic pattern. Could learning to communicate openly be the key to healthier relationships? This book might just be the wake-up call we need.
10 Lessons from The Silent Treatment by James Greaves
1. Silence Is a Form of Control
One of the main reasons people use the silent treatment is to assert power over others. By refusing to communicate, the individual attempts to control the emotional atmosphere and force the other person to act in certain ways.
2. It’s Rooted in Fear, Not Strength
While it may seem like the silent treatment is a powerful tactic, it actually stems from fear—fear of conflict, fear of vulnerability, or fear of being rejected. It’s a defense mechanism, not a sign of strength.
3. It Creates Emotional Distress
The recipient of the silent treatment can experience feelings of confusion, sadness, and anxiety. The lack of communication leaves them wondering what went wrong, often leading to insecurity and emotional instability.
4. It’s a Breach of Trust
Effective communication is the foundation of any relationship. When the silent treatment is used, it undermines trust because it implies that the person is unwilling to discuss the issue at hand, making the other person feel neglected or abandoned.
5. Silent Treatment Isn’t a Solution
Silence does not resolve conflict. Greaves points out that ignoring the problem only prolongs the tension and prevents healthy resolution. Communication is key to understanding, empathy, and growth in any relationship.
6. Emotional Manipulation Can Be Subtle
The silent treatment can be so subtle that it may not even be recognized as emotional manipulation at first. Over time, it can become a habit or routine that erodes the emotional connection between people, especially in intimate relationships.
7. Breaking the Cycle Takes Conscious Effort
Breaking free from the habit of using the silent treatment requires self-awareness and effort. Recognizing when you're retreating into silence as a defense mechanism and choosing to communicate openly instead is essential for healthier dynamics.
8. Empathy Can Heal
One of the most powerful tools in overcoming the silent treatment is empathy. Trying to understand the emotions and motivations of the person on the receiving end can help prevent this toxic cycle from continuing.
9. Healthy Communication Builds Stronger Bonds
Healthy, open communication not only resolves conflicts but also strengthens relationships. Greaves emphasizes that expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly—without resorting to silence or avoidance—builds intimacy and trust.
10. It’s Never Too Late to Change
No matter how ingrained the habit may seem, change is possible. Greaves encourages individuals to recognize their patterns of silence and take active steps toward fostering healthier, more direct forms of communication.
The Silent Treatment is a wake-up call to anyone who has ever used silence as a way to avoid conflict or punish others. James Greaves lays bare the emotional damage it can cause and offers insights into how to break free from this destructive habit. The book reminds us that silence may seem like an easy way to deal with difficult emotions, but communication—no matter how challenging—remains the most effective way to heal and grow together.
" The right woman is not merely a companion—she is a force that elevates a man’s very essence.
When she stands by his side, she amplifies his masculinity, igniting a power within him that makes him feel unstoppable. Her love is complete and unwavering, embracing every flaw and imperfection as a part of his unique story.
She embodies her own soul’s purpose, radiating the feminine energy that mirrors 🪞 his highest self. In doing so, she becomes both his muse and his greatest supporter, inspiring him to be bold, courageous, and true to his path.
Likewise, the right man creates a sanctuary where a woman feels safe, seen, and free to express every facet of herself. He is her rock—a steady presence who reflects both her light and her darkness without judgment. His love is nurturing and empowering, gently encouraging her to embrace her true essence with confidence. In his eyes, her dreams matter, her struggles are validated, and her inner strength is celebrated.
Together, they foster an environment where growth is mutual, where each challenge is met as a team, and where their shared journey is one of strength, authenticity, and purpose.
In these relationships, love transcends the ordinary. It is a dynamic force that fuels personal evolution and mutual empowerment. The right woman and the right man are like two halves of a whole, each bringing out the best in the other. Their connection is not defined by superficial ideals or fleeting moments of passion, but by a deep, abiding commitment to uplift one another.
They understand that true partnership means inspiring each other to step into the fullness of their being—unafraid to dream, to struggle, and ultimately to triumph together.
When you find that rare bond, you realize that love is not about losing yourself in another, but about discovering the extraordinary potential that lies within you both."
They will say anything just to say it and mean absolutely nothing by it at the same time.
They are completely unreliable. Their words are just random vocalisations or scripts they think will sound/look appealing and/or impressive to you for the amount of time they plan on benefiting from your presence in their life. They mostly lack the character to be who they say they are.
I've talked about it so many times in the past in the shows I did with my internet radio show...
In my experience it requires a lot of discipline to express things in a linear fashion when communicating with other people who do not understand how interconnected everything is !
In the beginning I thought my delivery was poor but now I understand that neurodivergent people see and interpret the world in a completely different way to neurotypicals.
True love is not just an emotion; it is a steady and unwavering commitment. It does not waver in hardships or fade with time. Instead, it deepens, strengthens, and endures.
It is the quiet understanding in a world full of noise, the hand that holds on when everything else falls apart.
True love is choosing the same soul again and again, not out of convenience, but because the heart knows no other home.
It is found in patience, forgiveness, and the everyday choices to support and cherish one another.
True love is not about finding perfection but embracing imperfection with a love that never gives up.
how to deal with family, what beliefs will be instilled in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, financial expectations, family health history,
mental health history, bucket list, dream home, careers and education, political views and whatever comes to mind.
Ps. That is why some people prefer to only have casual relationships instead of deep, true ones. They subconsciously know that they require the kind of inner work they want to avoid at all costs.