"Dear Woman,
You cannot build a family with a man who doesn’t fully choose you.
You know that any attempt to build a family, to try to make it work when you are not fully chosen, is ultimately pointless. It will only make you feel more anxious, insecure, and drain your energy.
If you don’t feel fully chosen, it is essential to speak up—to speak from your fiercely loving heart. Speak your truth, not to accuse or demand, but to let your heart be seen and heard. Only by honoring your own feelings can you find clarity about what is truly meant for you.
When a man truly chooses you, you will know it. You won’t have to second-guess his intentions, decode his actions, or beg for his time and love. You will feel it in the way he honors you, cherishes you, and stands beside you as a partner. Love that is true speaks a language of security and care—it does not thrive in uncertainty.
Dear woman, you are worthy of being fully chosen. You are worthy of a love that doesn't leave you wondering or questioning your value. A family is not built on half-measures, on partial commitments, or on one person carrying the emotional weight. A strong family is built when two people stand together, fully committed to each other and the life they are creating.
It is okay to want to be chosen. It is not selfish, needy, or wrong to desire a love that makes you feel safe. It is, in fact, the foundation of a healthy relationship. Never let anyone convince you that your need to be chosen and prioritized is too much. The right man will see your worth and rise to meet you.
Sometimes, speaking your truth might lead to hard conversations or even heartbreak. But heartbreak from standing up for yourself is far better than the slow erosion of your soul caused by staying silent in a relationship where you are not valued. Trust that your voice matters, and trust that the universe has a way of guiding you toward what is truly aligned for you.
Choosing yourself first is the most powerful act of love you can give to yourself and your future family. When you choose yourself, you set a standard for the kind of love you will accept. You teach others how to treat you by how you treat yourself.
A man who truly chooses you will not see your standards as a burden; he will see them as a gift. He will cherish the opportunity to rise to them because he knows that the foundation of a strong family begins with a woman who feels safe, loved, and supported.
Dear woman, never settle for breadcrumbs when you are worthy of the whole feast. Your love, your heart, and your devotion are sacred. They deserve to be poured into a relationship that nourishes you, not one that depletes you.
And if you ever doubt your worth, remember this: You are enough, just as you are. You don’t need to prove your value to anyone. The right man will see it, honor it, and treasure it without hesitation.
You cannot force someone to choose you, and you shouldn’t have to. The man who is meant for you will choose you freely and completely. And when he does, you will feel the kind of love that nurtures your soul and makes you feel at home.
So dear woman, choose yourself. Choose your peace, your joy, and your self-respect. Because a love that doesn’t fully choose you isn’t a love worth holding onto.
Let your fiercely loving heart guide you. Let it remind you that being chosen starts with you choosing yourself first."
- Abhikesh
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